i realized this last year. your turn.


i think when it comes down to it. the only thing that really matters in life is love. and well if you can't deal with that then youre fucked. after everything else goes away. after everything else gets old. after there's nothing left to buy, or see, or accomplish, there is always something left to feel. love isn't a competition. there are no winners and losers. Its not about how long you date a certain guy, and its not about knowing everything about the other person. Its not about anything except love. There are no limitations on love either. you don't have to be 18 or 21 or 35 to understand it. there are no borders being drawn with emotions. you feel them and you are capable of feeling them at any age. saying it is impossible to be in love in high school is a statement made out of complete ignorance. love is a feeling. but it not always synonymous with pain or loss or longing. getting dumped and feeling upset about it doesn't mean you were in love. although it is often mistaken for it. the amount of time you know someone has no effect on the amount of love you may have for them. although it grows over time, it doesn't have to start small. there is no need to fight about it. there is no need to be protective or paranoid. all the worrying is a waste of energy.